Day 23: Notice Today: When you are unhappy, How does that affect your husband? Nurture Today: The next time your husband does something that irritates you, make it one of the things on your list of faults to overlook.
It does effect Jon when I am grouchy. I'm one that clams up when I am grouchy and I think it makes him lonely and wonder if he did something wrong whether it was him or not. It then makes him sad and depressed and not want to be around me. This will be my challenge to over look things he does that irritate me. Because lets admit it there are a lot of little things he does that he doesn't realize he does that drive me crazy and even some that he does realize but thinks its fun to drive me bonkers. But that's a man for ya haha. I think that when I learn to over look the little things and not let them irritate me we will both be happier. Its just that learning to live with each other 24/7. I really liked the story of the grandma who wrote the list but never really wrote it because she learned to just let little things go through out life and continually let the list grow.
It does effect Jon when I am grouchy. I'm one that clams up when I am grouchy and I think it makes him lonely and wonder if he did something wrong whether it was him or not. It then makes him sad and depressed and not want to be around me. This will be my challenge to over look things he does that irritate me. Because lets admit it there are a lot of little things he does that he doesn't realize he does that drive me crazy and even some that he does realize but thinks its fun to drive me bonkers. But that's a man for ya haha. I think that when I learn to over look the little things and not let them irritate me we will both be happier. Its just that learning to live with each other 24/7. I really liked the story of the grandma who wrote the list but never really wrote it because she learned to just let little things go through out life and continually let the list grow.
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