Saturday, October 6, 2012

Day 6;

Notice Today:
Do you treat your husband as the leader in your home? If not, what is preventing you? IF yes, what is your motivation for letting him lead?

Nurture Today:
The next time your husband suggests something you disagree with, bite your tongue and go with the flow. As long as it's morally acceptable, you can show some flexibility.
Ending Domestic Tranquillity heading into Respect!!

How did everyone's first week go? How is everyone feeling? Any particular thoughts anyone would like to share?

Friday, October 5, 2012

Day 5


Notice:
If your husband is having a rough time at work consider how discouraged he must feel on some days. Take a moment to put yourself in his shoes.


Nurture:
Make your man feel like a man again by.....pursuing him sexually this week, cooking his favorite meal, going to a sports game, or giving him a massage.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Day 4

Notice Today:

What money personality do you think your husband is? What are you?
Saver
Spender
Risk taker
Security Seeker
Flyer ( not too concerned about money, flying by the seat of their pants financially)

Nurture Today:

Recognize your husband's money personality as valid, and then schedule a money talk. Discuss what you can both do better to work as a team financially instead of working against each other. Decide together on one specific step to implement this month to get financially stronger.

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Day 3

Notice Today:

When you and your husband were dating, how often would you meet throughout the week? How did you flex and adjust your schedules to see each other?

Nurture Today:
Schedule to meet each other at an odd time. Have lunch or breakfast out together. Take a late-night walk. Do something out of the ordinary together.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Day 2:

Notice Today: 
What are three things your husband does well as a father?

Nurture Today:
Allow your husband to parent the kids using his unique style. Don't try to make him into a clone of you. Tell him today-or write a note-expressing your appreciation. If you have belittled him as a father in the past, apologize and tell him you're going to trust him more in the future.

Monday, October 1, 2012

Day 1: 

Notice Today:
Imagine the challenges your husband faces at work this week. Any deadlines coming up or strained relationships with coworkers? Is he unemployed, underemployed or over-employed right now> Howe would you rate his stress level?

Nurture Today:
When your husband walks in the door today, greet him with a warm smile, a hug, and a kiss that lasts at least five seconds. Straighten up the house a few minutes before his arrival.