Notice Today:
Do you agree with the penners that "nothing turns on a man like a turned-on woman"?

Nurture Today:
What's something concrete you can do this week to get more turned on sexually? reading a book aloud with your husband? Kegel exercises? Taking the pressure off mentally?

Day 12:

Notice Today:
Go back to the night before your wedding day. How did you dream about making love to your husband? Think about how you felt about him and how you desired his touch.

Nurture Today:
Now is the time to make that dream come true again. Plan a romantic evening with your spouse. When you make love, remember in your mind how lucky you felt on your wedding day.

Hey Ladies
So we are finished up with Respect and finishing Eros.

• What are everyone's thoughts and feelings about how this last section went?
• Is anyone noticing differences in their relationships?
• Thought, questions, comments

Day 10

Notice Today:
How often do you argue with your husband?
Seldom
Weekly
Sometimes
Daily/or almost daily
What are most of your disagreements with your husband about?

Nurture Today:
The next time your experience conflict with your husband, go quiet. Not "Ice Princess" quiet but "I want to try to understand you"quiet. Treat your husband with respect and value his opinion the same way you want your opinion valued.

Day 9:

Notice Today:
Write something you really appreciate about your husband. It could be something about his character or something he has done for you lately, like put gas in the car or fix a computer problem.


Nurture Today:
Tell him out loud or in a note what you wrote above. Be sure to be very specific about what he did and how it made your proud of him.

Day 8:

Notice Today: 

What's a difference between you and your husband that drives you nuts? What difference do you think drives him nuts?

Nurture Today:

Thinking of your husband's difference, write down how that difference may add depth and strength to your marriage. For instance, my husband being a free spirit has led us to opportunities that I would have never tried were it up to me. 

Day Seven:

Notice Today:
Make a list of five things you find attractive about your Big Hunk:

Nurture Today:
Have you spoken poorly about your husband to your family or friends? Listen tothe way you talk about your husband in the next week. Choose your words wisely and repent when you don't.